I invite you to join me for a very special, 1-day, high-impact, virtual live session where I’ll PERSONALLY guide you (and 3 others) to transform the #1 reason your emotions keep sabotaging your life and your relationships.
Do you often ask yourself…
There’s a reason why…
…Your relationship problems keep repeating, no matter how much you and your partner try to talk things through or change your behavior
…You keep having the same negative, oppressive thoughts year after year, no matter what you do to change your circumstances
…The people closest to you are the ones who are the most hurtful, selfish, controlling or inconsiderate
…You feel empty or lost inside your painful emotions most of the time, regardless of your relationship status, career or how many big changes you make to you life
…You can’t seem to connect with an inner sense of joy and peace, no matter how many mornings a week you write in your gratitude journal
That REASON is that your ongoing frustrations, relationship problems, pain and depression all share the same root cause.
And as each year goes by, and this fundamental issue continues to be ignored, numbed and avoided – your unfulfillment in life and love grows.
(Which is why no amount of yoga, meditation, exercise, travel, journaling, analyzing, shopping, wine or teary late-night chats with your closest friend resolves it either.)
And you know what?
Most people have ZERO awareness of what this root cause is, or the negative impact it’s having on their lives.
While you’re probably perceptive enough to know deep down that something is “off” – it can be a lifelong struggle to identify exactly WHAT is off… nevermind how to go about fixing it.
It can feel like being lost in a maze without a map, causing you to run from one possible solution to the next.
Leaving you to feel exhausted, defeated and like there’s no way out.
And it’s no wonder… it’s not like you were taught what this missing link was at home or in school or at work.
You simply don’t know what you don’t know about yourself yet: You can’t “SEE” all the ways you’re self-abandoning and self-sabotaging your life.
But there IS A WAY to break free from the vicious cycles of emptiness, depression, anxiety and loneliness… and to experience the peace, joy and love everyday you’ve been desperately longing for.
It can be tempting (and even seem logical) to blame others for your emotional problems and the circumstances in your life.
After all, if your partner, boss and your bank balance were different – wouldn’t you be happier and less frustrated? This is a normal reaction because your mind is a meaning-making machine. When you feel pain, your mind scrambles for an answer.
And the most obvious go-to answer is to point the finger externally… rather than at the unhealed wound that’s bleeding inside of you.
But this only keeps you trapped in a cycle of projecting OUTSIDE what you most need to heal INSIDE.
When you’re gripped by fear-based emotions such as anxiety, depression, loneliness and hopelessness – the wounded inner voice is in charge. This is the voice that causes your body to become tight and your thoughts to be restless and unrelenting because they’ve gone into survival mode.
This prevents you from accessing your inner wisdom and truth. It also causes you to become trapped in cycles of self-abandonment, shame and self-sabotage.
When you’re trapped in a fearful state, it can feel like you’re losing control. When this happens, it’s a common reaction to cling onto what you feel you can control, or onto what you don’t want to lose.
Such as a romantic partner, your friends and other people’s perceptions of you.
This often has the opposite effect and turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy… only re-confirming your false beliefs that you’re unlovable or that you’re broken.
When your survival-based emotions are triggered – you don’t always make the most loving decisions toward yourself. Your mind will always try to seek immediate pleasure over pain – so you might numb yourself with alcohol, sex, overspending, drugs, TV and other addictions rather than deal with the pain you’re trying to avoid.
Your inner self talk becomes more critical and on edge – it too is looking for someone to blame. Instead of being your soothing best friend, it becomes more relentless than that bully from 10th grade.
These are the 4 biggest reasons why–even with the best intentions–you often fail to experience lasting transformation and healing.
You continue to “go around in circles” with the same patterns and problems.
You complain and blame.
You distract yourself with addictions.
You make excuses as to why you “can’t” change.
The Inner Bonding BREAKTHROUGH experience distills everything I’ve learned, taught and practiced over the last 50+ years into 6 life-changing hours to help transform the #1 reason you often feel so stuck, lost, empty, “broken” and unloveable. This unique healing experience – which I liken to five years of therapy – uses the self-healing methodology called Inner Bonding, which was developed by myself, Dr. Margaret Paul, Ph.D. and Dr. Erika Chopich, Ph.D.
Inner Bonding is a proven six-step self-healing process that’s extremely practical, and what’s more – it always works when you do it.
I have used my Inner Bonding techniques with thousands of couples and individuals throughout my career as a facilitator, relationship expert, workshop leader, and best-selling author.
… Whether you need individual help to overcome your depression, anxiety, anger, loneliness, purposelessness or emptiness…
… Or you’re in a relationship where you’re weary from conflict and your heart is burdened with regret, betrayal or rejection…
… Or you struggle to attract and maintain healthy and nurturing relationships…
… Inner Bonding BREAKTHROUGH will be the catalyst for your healing and transformation.
FREEDOM from… all of those heavy emotions that keep gatecrashing your life and relationships and robbing you of the love, exuberance and excitement you long for
FREEDOM from… all of the self-blame, self-loathing and incessant self-criticism because you finally know what it means to truly love yourself and to experience inner peace
FREEDOM to… choose healthy relationships and set boundaries because you’re coming from a place of wholeness, rather than a place of lack
FREEDOM to… be the truest most radiant expression of yourself because you no longer feel like everything’s on the line all the time
Inner Bonding BREAKTHROUGH isn’t your typical “passive watching” online event – this is super intimate, completely interactive and personalized.
Because for 6 full hours, I’ll be guiding you and only 3 other individuals to achieve the emotional breakthrough you’ve spent your entire life searching for.
Here’s what will be happening:
By the end of the day, you’ll have a profound understanding of how to use Inner Bonding, not just as a powerful tool for immediate relief, but as a LIFELONG RESOURCE to help clear unconscious blocks, heal painful emotions and generate self-compassion and love anytime you need it!
“It Was Powerful, Enriching and Very Moving”
“The IB intensive was an uplifting, inspiring and very personal experience of self-discovery in a cocoon of safety with Dr. Paul and the other participants.
It is a wonderful format -- to share such a deep exploration of personal issues within a context of fellow souls journeying together. In what felt like a safe and nonjudgmental environment, we all held the space for one another. It was powerful, enriching and very moving.
I highly endorse and recommend this intensive IB experience. Thank you, Dr. Paul. Spirit moves powerfully through you to assist each and every participant.”
--Inner Bonding Breakthrough Participant, Jan 2022
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“This experience was incredibly helpful to be a part of, both as a listener and contributor”
“Watching Dr. Paul interact with others in the group really brought to light a lot of emotion and deeper understanding into my own issues. There’s also something to be said about practicing inner bonding outwardly with a small group of confidants who are also working on themselves, because there is an additional level of honesty and awareness with yourself that is created.
I particularly really enjoyed the experience, and I found that dedicating an entire day to this discovery and exploration of myself was vastly impactful in my self discovery and growth trajectory. The comradery from my intensive peers was such a heartwarming thing to experience as well.”
--Jess B, Feb 2022
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“Before I found Inner Bonding, I had tried many ways of addressing my childhood trauma, with limited success.”
“I jumped at the opportunity to work with Dr. Margaret Paul in a small group day-long breakthrough session.
I was able to resolve feelings of guilt surrounding the death of my husband, address the root cause of my hair phobia and gain the clarity I needed to make two work-related decisions.
I benefitted greatly by observing how the issues raised by the other three in my group were explored.
I am continuing to implement the 6-step inner bonding process - as with all the best techniques, it is simple, quick and easy to build into an everyday practice.
I warmly recommend Inner Bonding Breakthrough.”
--Janet S, Feb 2022
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“The Breakthrough brought the incredible gift of the IB process from the realm of the abstract into the concrete and operational.”
“It made a world of difference to see how it is applied in a full, specific and satisfying session.
I got just as much out of the rare privilege of watching Dr. Paul work with others as I did out of my own sessions during the day.
My own sessions were life-changing, giving me new insights into my patterns and how to change them.
The day was the beginning of a new chapter and a continuing inquiry, and I am very grateful to have been able to participate.”
--Elizabeth R, April 2022
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“It’s been about two weeks since I have done the one day intensive. I continue to reap the benefits in ways that are difficult to put into words.”
“As I write this, a continued sense of appreciation and gratitude moves into my heart for Dr. Paul, not only for her commitment to her work, but also for her commitment to honest loving, personal growth and healing.
I have done years and years of personal work. Dr Paul’s work pulls it all together in a way that is simply magical to say the least.
I feel blessed and very fortunate to have had an opportunity to work with her and do the one day intensive.
I continue to make progress in all areas of my life applying the principles of Dr Paul’s work.
Thank you so much!”
--William, July 2022
And to help you to experience rapid transformation…
You’ll be in an intimate group of just 4 (3 other attendees) because in my experience, being guided alongside a small group is much more powerful than one-on-one facilitation.
Why?
Because witnessing others have their breakthroughs has a lasting impact on your psyche.
You remember their stories and your mind “relates” to what they’re feeling, which broadens your own experience and offers insights into areas of your life you may not have previously looked at.
Plus, you are able to see how quickly you can shift the patterns and challenges of your life, because you don’t just feel it yourself… you witness it in others.
Before the actual day of your Inner Bonding BREAKTHROUGH experience, you’ll receive access to my exclusive online membership platform (for an entire 6 months) to help you prepare for your big day with me, and so you can continue to integrate your changes long after the event.
You’ll be able to share with me the insights you get from this discovery tool to help me “connect the dots” of your life when we meet for our live session.
Not only will this maximize the time you spend with me, but will give you greater clarity around your issue so that you know exactly what you’d like to bring up and work on with my help.
Here’s a sneak peek at what you’ll get:
You’ll get an 80-minute introductory video by me – Dr. Margaret Paul – so you can learn more about my story and the profound breakthroughs I’ve experienced, and how I have helped thousands of other people just like you experience astounding transformations. You will also get an overview of Inner Bonding.
To fast-track your understanding of the process so that you can start practicing it right away, you’ll also get access to my 7-day Inner Bonding course.
(This Will Optimize Your Session)
To help you identify events in your past that may be contributing to your struggles today you’ll also get access to SelfQuest, which you can start to go through before we meet. This interactive tool helps you identify your false beliefs and all the ways you try to avoid pain, and is a tool you can continue to use after our session.
With this tool, you’ll learn:
You’ll also get access to my bestselling Love Yourself course, where for 30 days, you’ll receive an email with a video and a written explanation of that day’s focus.
In this enlightening course you’ll learn:
That’s right, your journey of healing doesn’t end when our special day together does. Because after the event, you’ll have 6 months of full, 24/7 access to a private Inner Bonding community support resource called IBVillage.
Here’s how IBVillage works:
We Were Headed For Divorce
"The inner bonding work has completely changed my life and my relationship for the better. My husband and I went from a relationship that was surely headed for divorce (or misery) to the most fulfilling and connected relationship I have ever experienced! (More than I ever even imagined was possible.) We are now able to communicate freely and openly about all areas of our life, money, emotions, sex. We both feel free to relate to each other openly without fear of the other’s reaction."
The Greatest Blessing Of My Life
"I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking this path in your life to guide others towards the Truth and Freedom. You are spreading so much Light in this World! Your Love Yourself course has been the greatest blessing of my life, truly. Though I read many self-help books and did inner work (which all helped me to move forward), nothing really brought such a profound clarity, healing and inner peace that learning Inner Bonding does. I am forever grateful to have been guided to take this course. And I am beyond grateful… You can’t imagine how much you have changed my life. "
We Moved Beyond Power Struggles
“Inner Bonding has improved our relationship and our parenting, by giving each of us the tools to recognize, understand, and move beyond power struggles. As a result, we are each able to stay in a deeply loving place more and more continuously, and we bounce back much quicker if either or both of us goes into a wounded place. It’s great that we both practice IB as we can get feedback from each other and can enjoy deep learning and spiritual growth together.”
“Like Waking Up To The World With New Eyes”
“Before attending the Inner Bonding Breakthrough, I had already taken many of the IB 30 Day courses and I was convinced having understood the 6-step process of IB. I even thought that I had already started practicing it…
BUT it was only DURING that day with Margaret, that I slowly started to FEEL the processand t’s full sense. It was what is called the “felt sense“. And that was only the beginning of it.
In the afterwards, it was like waking up to the world with new eyes. I do barely have words that can fully describe my gratitude to Margaret.
Her contribution to the healing of the world, to making the world a better place, is of an unbelievable richness, that you can only grab once you felt it for yourself.”
If you think you’re ready to work directly with me to experience your own personal breakthrough:
THE FIRST STEP is to schedule a no-commitment call with my trusted assistant Valerie.
She’ll answer all your questions and make sure Inner Bonding Breakthrough is right for your specific situation.
This is a powerful healing experience - with only 4 people max per session. We’ll be accepting registrations only from individuals who I feel very confident I can help create profound positive change.
Inner Bonding Breakthrough is a significant investment in YOU - both of time and money - so it’s important to me that it is the right fit all around. After your initial call, if we determine this is the right fit and you decide to move forward, Valerie can help you register and schedule our virtual session together.
For individuals – the cost for the entire package: one life-changing day with me, all of the bonuses, and a full 6 month membership to Inner Bonding Village is $2,997 Only $2,697 – Register NOW to save!
For two people – who would like to focus on a shared relationship i.e) romantic couple, family members, friends, I’m offering a $500 discount. The cost will be $2,747 Only $2,447/each – Register NOW to save!
I’m offering an early bird discount to anyone who registers this month. So if this is something you might like to do, schedule your call right away. I wouldn’t want you to miss out on the savings.
Give me just 6 hours, and I’ll help you experience the emotional breakthrough
you’ve spent
your entire life searching for (and the tools to make it stick!)
Dr. Paul is the author/co-author of several best-selling books, including Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?, Inner Bonding, Healing Your Aloneness, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By My Kids?, and her recent books, Diet for Divine Connection: Beyond Junk Foods and Junk Thoughts to At-Will Spiritual Connection, and The Inner Bonding Workbook: Six Steps to Healing Yourself and Connecting with Your Divine Guidance. Dr. Paul’s books have been distributed around the world and translated into eleven languages.
Margaret is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant and artist, and has worked with thousands of individuals and couples since 1967. She has been featured on numerous radio and TV shows, including the Oprah show.
Margaret continues to share her wisdom globally over Skype, Zoom and phone sessions. She is able to access spiritual guidance during her sessions, which enables her to work with people wherever they may be in the world.
“I’ve Overcome Low Self-Esteem”
“My Inner Bonding training has significantly enhanced my daily life. As a result of Inner Bonding I’ve overcome low self-esteem and self doubt, instead embracing my “self” as a unique, creative and happy person. When I am faced with seemingly difficult circumstances, I dialogue with my inner self and am consistently rewarded with wonderful and insightful paradigms. There seems to be so much inside me to be tapped by simply learning how to connect with that delightful inner self who has so much to say. Comparing my life after Inner Bonding to the life before can be summed up by the song Amazing Grace: 'I was blind but now I see'.”
–Rick Fria, Builder, AZ
“We Feel Free, Empowered, and Deeply Loving”
“Inner bonding has helped us to love and care for ourselves, so that we share our lives and love from a full and connected place without codependent expectations. We focus on our own highest good and support this in each other. This has allowed us to feel truly free, empowered, deeply loving and supported in our journey together.”
–Sylvia Poareo and Sean Davidson
“My Inner Bonding Breakthrough experience far exceeded my expectations.”
“With over thirty years of meditation and certifications in several healing modalities, I was impressed by Margaret Paul’s clarity, depth, and insights. Working with her I understood why it seemed impossible to heal my core painful pattern. Since my breakthrough with her, I now have the experience, understanding, and tools to shift the course of my life. I will be forever grateful to Margaret Paul for this experience!”
–Chris Townson
If you think you’re ready to work directly with me to experience your own personal breakthrough:
THE FIRST STEP is to schedule a no-commitment call with my trusted assistant Valerie.
She’ll answer all your questions and make sure Inner Bonding Breakthrough is right for your specific situation.
This is a powerful healing experience - with only 4 people max per session. We’ll be accepting registrations only from individuals who I feel very confident I can help create profound positive change.
Inner Bonding Breakthrough is a significant investment in YOU - both of time and money - so it’s important to me that it is the right fit all around. After your initial call, if we determine this is the right fit and you decide to move forward, Valerie can help you register and schedule our virtual session together.
For individuals – the cost for the entire package: one life-changing day with me, all of the bonuses, and a full 6 month membership to Inner Bonding Village is $2,997 Only $2,697 – Register NOW to save!
For two people – who would like to focus on a shared relationship i.e) romantic couple, family members, friends, I’m offering a $500 discount. The cost will be $2,747 Only $2,447/each – Register NOW to save!
I’m offering an early bird discount to anyone who registers this month. So if this is something you might like to do, schedule your call right away. I wouldn’t want you to miss out on the savings.
Give me just 6 hours, and I’ll help you experience the emotional breakthrough
you’ve spent
your entire life searching for (and the tools to make it stick!)
“I Can Now Move Forward and... Live From a Place of Health and Contentment”
“I feel a deep sense of peace and inner acceptance about myself that I did not have before. I can now see how my whole life was run by my wounded self and created so much trouble and unhappiness. I feel like I can now move forward and know and understand how to live from a place of health and contentment.”
If you decide that Inner Bonding BREAKTHROUGH is not for you, there are generally two different scenarios to getting unstuck from your emotional pain.
This option can be challenging if you don’t have the credentials (and talk about putting a lot of pressure on yourself!)
But of course you can…
… Do your best to “fix” whatever problems you’re experiencing in your personal relationships on your own
… Spend years reflecting on why you’re feeling unhappy and anxious and trying different things to feel more at peace in your life
… Keep stocking up your bookshelf with self-help books in your eternal search for answers…
BUT you’re likely to never fully transcend your painful emotions or permanently resolve your relationship conflict.
And you’ll fail to address the real barriers that are keeping you stuck in an endless loop of blaming, complaining, and ruminating.
That’s because it’s nearly impossible to recognize your own blind spots without the guidance of someone who is skilled and experienced with drawing out the root cause of painful emotions and recurring negative patterns.
Or…
Don’t get me wrong, therapy is great, but traditional therapy doesn’t come close to being as effective as Inner Bonding (I worked as a traditional therapist for 17 years and I was never happy with the results).
But it can be a very long process taking years of digging and talking and analysis, which gives you loads of self-awareness (which is great) – but not the tools to necessarily move forward with your life (not so great).
And without the tools – sometimes you can feel even more “broken” as you become painfully more aware of your patterns and behaviors… yet, you’re still unable to resolve them.
This is exactly why I co-created the Inner Bonding processes – because through my own experience as a therapist, I saw what was often missing in the therapy room.
I have since used Inner Bonding to heal my own deep emotional wounds, and have helped tens of thousands of others heal in ways that traditional therapy and self help is often lacking.
Inner Bonding gets to the root cause that’s keeping you stuck in an endless loop of blaming, complaining, and ruminating so you can permanently resolve and transcend it.
Time and time again, I’ve been astounded at how quickly individuals or couples make progress once I can help them “see” the things they haven’t been able to see about the patterns of their wounded self.
I see the ways in which they’re compensating or self-abandoning.
…The ways in which they’re self-sabotaging or making their situation worse.
…The ways in which they’re impeding their healing because they’re not being completely honest with themselves or others.
Relational and personal obstacles and challenges that have lingered for YEARS get exposed in just a few hours during an intimate group coaching session with me.
Instead of focusing on the wrong issues, you can address the root cause of your struggle directly with a specific application of the Inner Bonding process.
This kind of laser-focused facilitation is unmatched in its veracity and efficiency.
I have well over 50+ years of experience helping thousands of individuals and couples find their AHA moment of truth, and then helping them formulate an action plan for healing that is faster and more efficient than years of therapy or counseling.
I know what to ask and what to look for.
I can see your pain in a way that you cannot see it, and I know how to help you heal it.
I can’t wait to meet you at last and be your guide on this most important life journey.
Blessings,
Dr. Margaret Paul
Give me just 6 hours, and I’ll help you experience the emotional breakthrough
you’ve spent
your entire life searching for (and the tools to make it stick!)
Great question! I’ve been helping people for 50+ years, and before co-creating Inner Bonding, I struggled to find and offer my clients a comprehensive healing process that really resolved the root cause of their anxiety, depression, emptiness and loneliness… And the reason they struggled to maintain healthy, lasting relationships.
Inner Bonding was not only the answer to my own healing, it’s helped thousands of others – so I know it can help you, too.
The Inner Bonding Breakthrough experience is different from therapy as not only does it use the Inner Bonding methodology – but the 6-hour breaththrough session with me will allow for rapid transformation so you don’t need to spend years and years in therapy or going down self-help rabbit holes.
That all depends on you! This isn’t a magic bullet – the Inner Bonding process only works if you do. But if you put in the work – you can expect magical changes in all areas of your life – especially the relationship with yourself.
These processes will end cycles of shame, self-abandonment, self-betrayal and self-sabotage. You’ll finally understand what “self-love” really means, and how to have healthier and happier relationships with everyone in your life.
Also, I only accept individuals into this session who I feel extremely confident I can help. This is why before registering you’ll speak with my assistant Valerie to describe your challenges and goals. She’ll explore whether or not the Inner Bonding Breakthrough experience is right for you.
Currently I’m scheduling one session per week and accepting only 4 individuals per session.
When you submit your information on the request form we’ll reach out to discuss specific scheduling availability.
This an obligation-free call to see if you’re a good fit for Inner Bonding BREAKTHROUGH.
This is an intensive healing experience – so it’s important you’re aware (and ready for) the transformation you’re about to experience.
During the call, my most trusted assistant will explain more about the process and will also ask you some questions before a decision is made.
Only participants that I feel very confident I can help create profound change will be accepted into the program.
I totally get it – sharing painful experiences or thoughts or emotions with strangers can make you feel uncomfortable, exposed and vulnerable.
But it’s my experience that group healing allows for rapid transformation. This is because someone else’s “aha!” moment or healing can trigger your own. You’ll learn so much from everyone else’s experience, and it will help normalize what you may have been feeling alone with your entire life. And I create a very safe, non-judgmental environment to do your deep healing work.
Absolutely – this is a BRAND-NEW healing experience where you’ll have the rare opportunity to receive personal guidance from me for a full 6 hours!
To optimize your breakthrough, you’ll also get access to the Complete Self Love online program before the event, and receive ongoing support and guidance from the IBVillage online community for 6 months after the event.
This is nothing like I’ve ever offered before and has been specifically designed to facilitate rapid transformation.
Give me just 6 hours, and I’ll help you experience the emotional breakthrough
you’ve spent
your entire life searching for (and the tools to make it stick!)