The Secret Dating Strategy That WORKED to Bring Me True Love After Decades of Being Single

by Bobbi Palmer

Are you a single woman with a goal of falling in love with the right guy, but you’re starting to wonder if that’s ever going to happen for you?

I know what that’s like. I was single for a long, long time—until I was 47. If it wasn’t for discovering certain dating strategies, I would have likely never met the love of my life and gotten married.

I would still be out there going on endless first dates and getting nowhere.

I would still be frustrated and confused about why men weren’t calling me or asking me out.

I would still be making the same mistakes over and over:

Saying the same wrong things…

Doing things the same wrong way…

Letting the same insecurities stand in my way…

Making the same wrong assumptions…

Totally putting out the wrong impression and turning men off of asking me out again…

And then going home and wondering what I was doing wrong, or why men were so flakey or not interested in me.

I Get Why This Feels So Hard For You. It Was Impossible for Me, Too When I Was Still Single

When I was 46, I looked back on what had been my lackluster history of dating.

I had gone on what seemed like hundreds of first dates… but literally NO second dates. Then I spent years going on NO dates at all.

NONE. Zero. Zip.

Can you imagine being in your mid-40s like I was, wanting to find a life partner, and having no prospects, no ideas, and almost no hope left?

What I didn’t realize at the time was that I wasn’t having any luck with dating or attracting a great guy because I kept doing those same things that were NOT working.

I just didn’t “see” it. I thought I was doing everything you were “supposed” to do on dates in order to make a good impression and attract a good guy.

Wow, was I wrong!

Then I Discovered a DIFFERENT Way to Approach Dating

I consulted with experts. I went to therapy. I evaluated what I had been doing and finally got honest with myself after 25+ years—that I was the common denominator in my decades of sad stories.

It took me a few years of sometimes difficult inner-work, but I finally learned how to love myself and men.

It was then that I finally saw what I needed to do to bust through my dating rut and attract a man I could love and who could love me, too.

And that’s when EVERYTHING changed.

I met the love of my life and within 6 months, we were married. That was in 2006. We’ve been happy together ever since.

What was my secret?

First, it was letting go of the idea that being successful with dating had anything to do with my looks, my age, or how “picky” men are.

Then, it was learning certain skills.

That’s right. If you want to meet the right guy, attract him, get him to ask you out again and arrive at your Happily-Ever-After, you need dating skills.

Skills that will get you noticed without changing who you are or what you look like.

Skills that will get you an “edge” because you’ll be magnetic to men by “speaking their language”.

Skills that will put you ahead of the game because you know what to say, what to ask, and what to do before, during and after a date.

Skills that allow you to overlook the things that distract you from finding Mr. Wonderful, and find all the kind, smart, commitment-ready men that most other women overlook.

Once you learn and acquire these skills, you, too, will be on your way to meeting the right man, and having that enviable relationship you’ve been yearning to have for so long.

I’m so glad that when I was in my mid-40s and decided to take a look at what I had been doing (or not doing) in dating that wasn’t working for me. If I hadn’t, I would not be with my wonderful husband today.

I would likely still be single, frustrated, lonely and wondering what was wrong with me.

I’ve since helped thousands of women find love by teaching them specific skills and secrets to attract the right man—including how to stay true to their values while gaining control of their dating life.

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