The Mindset Shake-Up You Need To Go From Sensitive And Single To Marvellously Married (aka Why Online Dating Rules!)

by Carol Allen

You have a fairly good idea of how you want to meet your guy.

Organically. In person. In some otherworldly romantic way like in the movies…ahhh.

You’ve spent quite a number of hours daydreaming and even journaling about how you want this meeting to go, and what your prince will look like.

Maybe you bump into him at the bookstore. Or end up sitting next to him in yoga class. Perhaps you envision him walking his adorable dog, which you stop to pet. Your eyes meet, and you just know…

Whatever the “scenario,” you envision this magic moment lit up in splendor—a meeting of the minds and a joining of souls.

This meeting, whenever it happens, will be MEANT to be.

And, in your mind, there will be no mistaking that the two of you should be together. The chemistry will be through the roof. None of this unappetizing “he’ll grow on you” business.

No way. That’s not for you.

You were born for epic romance. And that’s exactly why you’d rather get a root canal than date online.

You’re so not alone. Women who cringe at the thought of online dating are often what I call “soulfully sensitive.” For them, online dating goes against everything they thought romance should be. (Not to mention the fact that online dating totally exhausts and overwhelms them.)

Sensitive or not, if you can’t stand the idea of combing through profiles in order to find your prince—or if you have a hard time believing he could possibly be hanging out on a dating site—I urge you to keep reading.

Because if you’re still single, you gotta change it up if you want different results.

What Online Dating Feels Like To The Soulfully Sensitive

All your single friends are doing it.

It’s where ALL the guys are, they say. Everyone’s online, and constantly fiddling with their phone, BTW…(ugh…)

You know you should PROBABLY do it, but there’s just so much resistance in you.

In your mind, nothing could be more unromantic and inorganic than meeting a man through an app or website.

For starters, you want to feel special. You don’t want to be “swiped” at.

You want to feel like a man is captivated by your presence and changed forever, declaring right there on the spot—“I must have this woman!”

And you don’t feel that online. Not one little bit. How could you, when there are 256 other profiles within a 10-mile radius clamoring for a man’s attention.

How could you feel a kismet connection when all it takes is a swipe left or right?

No, no, no. Every cell in your being is telling you that this. is. not. the. way. it’s. supposed. to turn. out.

Not your story, at least.

You Want To Be Swept Off Your Feet, Not Swiped To The Right

I get it, I really do.

Hey, I’m a Vedic astrologer and have built my career on fate and timing.

I’m as much a romantic as you are.

I want you to have your movie-screen romance, and you CAN have that.

But first you need to shift your perception about what real, lasting romance looks like.

In other words, you’re putting the cart before the horse. You think that the beginning is more important than the rest of the story. Which is why you often get the crappy ending.

Sorry to say it, but it’s true. And you know it. So stick with me here.

You CAN have your courtship cake and eat it, too (mmm…cake), if you keep a few important points in mind.

Why Getting Over Your Aversion To Internet Dating Can Be The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You

If you woke up tomorrow with your dream man, would you care that you met him on the internet?

Think about this.

Say that in a year from now an amazing man who adores you (and you should settle for nothing less than this!) feels like the luckiest dude on the planet to call you his woman.

And that, in turn, YOU can’t believe that you finally feel head over heels in love with a guy who treats you right and is committed to you.

He surprises you with tickets to your favorite bands, cooks a mean breakfast, and is constantly telling you how much he appreciates you.

Isn’t THAT a fairy-tale romance?

Does it really matter if he discovered your profile instead of caught your eye across a crowded room?

The reality is that 1 in 5 marriages are starting online these days, and that’s nothing to sneeze at.

Could you reframe your thinking and make your day-to-day with a man your love story—what you tell your grandchildren—rather than how you laid eyes on each other at a party?

Have The Romance Even You Couldn’t Imagine

Think about it like this: online dating is the greatest catalog of men on the planet! Even better than Amazon Prime (if only Amazon could ship great men to your doorstep in two days)!

Yes, my dear, here ARE really great guys out there. This is truly exciting.

All it takes is ONE incredible experience to make online dating the best thing that ever happened to you.

It really pains me to see so many awesome soulfully sensitive women depriving themselves of romance because they can’t get over internet dating as being “forced.”

It’s no more forced than finding the perfect little dress online instead of dealing with parking at the mall.

But I know that as a soulfully sensitive woman, you need a little more support to “get out there”—to feel confident enough about yourself that you know your worth.

And you need dating advice that is specific to your challenges as soulfully sensitive.

This is exactly why I created my program Love and The Soulfully Sensitive Woman. I am SO excited about this program, because I’m able to help women like you share their amazing gifts with the world—in particular with the men who need them.

Yes, soulfully sensitive women like you are a blessing to all of us—bringing hefty, healthy doses of empathy, creativity, and emotion. There are tons of great men who CRAVE being with a woman like you for all these reasons, but they can’t find you if you’re not out there.

And if I’ve convinced you to give internet dating another look, I’m so glad! In this program, you’ll learn how to strategize this powerful tool to fit your needs as a soulfully sensitive woman AND be able to stand out from the crowd.

You’ll get specific strategies and tips on what to do (or NOT do) on the first 4 dates. You’ll find out why matchmakers are warning women that it’s way too easy to “spook” a guy on the first date, and why it’s so important to have this strategy in place BEFORE you meet for coffee or drinks.

You’ll also hear my advice on how to handle a guy who doesn’t quite GET your sensitivity.

You’ll also learn how to make dating fun (yes, this is totally possible) and learn what happily-married women did while they were dating to land their husbands. There are actually 4 “traits” these women tend to embody that make them magnets for quality men.

My program will help raise your confidence about getting yourself “out there” so you actually enjoy it, give you the support you need to be successful at it, and offer you real-world tips that fit well with your sensitive nature.

I’ll also tell you what the overwhelming majority of married men say about why they chose their wives (this will surprise you, especially if you’re a bonafide people pleaser):

The fact that you crave an epic romance means it’s totally within your reach. Now let’s show you how to reach for the stars!

Soulfully Yours,

P.S. If you’re dead set against online dating, that’s really okay.

In module 2 of Love and The Soulfully Sensitive Woman, you’ll get specific tips on increasing your real-world strategies—how to maximize your exposure day-to-day so that the right guy doesn’t pass you by: